8 THINGS GUYS SECRETLY WANT FROM YOU BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

8 THINGS GUYS SECRETLY WANT FROM YOU BUT WILL NEVER TELL YOU

From an early age, women learn to form close and intimate relationships, and they know that they are cared for and understood.

Men’s friendships often don’t have the same depth and intimacy, so men often fall into a range of emotional feelings later in life when they start a relationship with a woman.

Respect.

Everyone deserves respect, but men and women tend to experience what that means differently. Think about the conversations you have during your work day. Your guy definitely steps in to offer a solution. By nature, he is a problem solver. But maybe you don’t need him to fix your problem, you just want to talk about it.

When you tell her that she doesn’t need help, it may come across as disrespectful, even if it’s the last thing you mean. Men often perceive respect as love, and if you don’t like what he does, how he dresses, or why he responds the way he does, it will be difficult for him to trust you emotionally. Accept her for who she is, along with the difference between male/female relationships, and she will bask in the light of your respect.

Pure devotion

Respect and admiration really go hand in hand. Your man wants nothing more than to admire everything he does for you. The key here is “TRUE” admiration, you can’t fake it. Guys can sense fake admiration very easily and they may tell you to stop faking it. Just be honest, admire everything he does and the hard work he puts in for you both, and he’ll be more satisfied than ever. Trust me, it works. He adores me for all that I am, and I do the same in return, no matter how fake. Achieving complete happiness is not difficult.

Praise

No man will tell you that he likes you because it’s weird and not very “manly” to compliment you. But just because he doesn’t ask doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to.

Men are also insecure about their looks and they don’t get as much assurance as we do. Think about it, a guy doesn’t have loyal fans who post pictures on Facebook or comment on how good he looks when he’s out with his friends. When it comes to her looks, you’re really her only source of compliments, so load her up! Tell her you think this shirt is sexy, that she’s been working out hard at the gym, that a certain color makes her eyes pop, that her hair looks hot in a tousled style… you get the point!

Accept his help.

You are undoubtedly independent, confident and fully capable of taking care of yourself. However, this has nothing to do with whether your man will let you help him. We all like to feel needed, and this is his way of showing his love through action rather than emotion.

It’s not about being a damsel in distress. Men love strong women who can handle adversity, whether it’s depression or changing a tire. But by offering to carry the bag (even if it’s not heavy), he’s showing that he wants to make you happy, make life easier, and make you feel needed. In old parlance, it is called chivalry. Enjoy it and let him.

Inspiration

All men want and love inspiration. I’m here to talk about myself, and I can’t find anything more powerful than her support and encouragement to strive for the best. It is said that behind every successful man there is a woman, it is so true and the same is true for me. I work hard because she encourages me to never stop believing in myself, makes me realize my strengths, and makes my weaknesses seem like they don’t exist. Ladies, if you believe in your man, encourage him, and support him with everything you have, you will be in a better place with him.

When you tell her what you want to make her feel good

Men want the woman they are with to be happy; It’s actually one of the biggest motivators for men in relationships. In fact, if a man doesn’t feel that he can make a certain woman happy, he probably doesn’t want to continue a relationship with that woman. Men will appreciate it if you know how to make them happy. Predictions, accusations, lecturing, and denigration are not the right way to go. This requires lovingly telling her what you like and what you want to make her feel good. Writing something as “I really love you…” rather than “Why would you ever…” is a good place to start.

When you lecture a man or get down on him for doing something wrong, he feels like a failure. He also said that the little boy misbehaved with his mother

It is impossible to talk about what men want from women without having sex. Sexy underwear, different positions, hot makeup in public or something new will make her wild. He won’t want to ask for it, but he’ll want it, and it’s one of the best ways to build intimacy and keep that all-important fire alive.

Be his friend.

Being your guy’s friend doesn’t mean you have to go to the club and eat meat pies and booze (although a lot of guys will appreciate it if you join in every now and then). It means to be on his side like a true friend and accept him as he is.

Too often, even early on in a relationship, it’s easy to fall into the trap of liking most things about your new lover, but thinking you’ll change the things you just don’t. You don’t. At worst, you’ll make him feel like you’re not in his corner, that there’s something wrong with him, that he can’t function like himself around you. A true friend would never do that.

What else? Dressing up as a hot nurse and bringing him a beer is always a winner, but he might not have the guts to ask you out.